If you’ve ever felt like the clock is ticking, or that all the good men are taken, or that you’ve wasted enough time on the wrong guys… I want you to read this.
I have a terrible business model; if I do a good job, I lose a client forever. I’m proud to say I’ve lost thousands of clients in my career! Here’s the story of three women who turned to me in spring and never have to hire me again:
Elsa wrote in her June application: “I’m frustrated with the current dating scene. I wasted 4 years in the wrong relationship and was just led on and hurt by a man I met while speed dating.”
Less than three months after we started coaching, Elsa had a new story to tell: “I have a sweet, giving boyfriend. I don’t have to do anything and he always makes the effort. He makes plans. He pays. All I have to do is be flirty and positive and he’s happy. The big game changer for me from your coaching was saying no to sex with men who weren’t my boyfriend. He loved the fact that I had healthy boundaries and he stepped up to meet my needs.”
Elsa didn’t get lucky. She got clear. She stopped accepting breadcrumbs and learned to let a man earn her time, energy, and devotion.
Then there’s Cheryl, who reached out in February, saying: “I want to meet my future husband this year. I have been single and dating for 10 years and need to do something differently. And I just started dating someone I like and don’t want to mess it up.”
She let go of a guy she liked — not because he was awful, but because he wasn’t making her happy. She started dating the Love U way. A few duds later, she met Jon. She writes: “He’s smitten with me. He’s open. He’s 100% all in. I never have to wonder how he feels or what he wants. It’s so easy. From working with you, I gained the confidence to drop the wrong guy instead of trying to make things work.”
You don’t need to fix men.
You need to stop trying to make the wrong ones right.
Finally, there’s Maddie, who came to me after an ugly divorce in her mid-40s:
“No more narcissists!” she declared in her application.
Four months later? “I want to express my sincere gratitude for giving me hope that healthy love is actually possible for me. I’ve tried to follow your guidance and trust the process, and so far, I couldn’t be happier with my boyfriend and this new dating experience.”
Each of these women came to me feeling frustrated, defeated, or stuck — burned by past relationships, unsure how to trust their judgment, and tired of wasting time on the wrong men. The common thread in their transformation wasn’t luck — it was clarity, confidence, and boundaries.
By learning to say no to men who didn’t step up and yes to the men who did, they created space for healthy, easy, emotionally generous relationships to unfold.
If you’re ready to stop settling and start attracting the kind of man who shows up for you, apply to Love U today.
You don’t need to fix your love life alone — you just need the right support, structure, and strategy to make better choices and find the relationship you deserve.
Love,
Evan
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